"Why Dogs Pretend They Don’t Like a Bed? Until Someone Else Uses It"

And why your dog is secretly a professional drama queen.


By Patricia Onofre
3 min read

"Why Dogs Pretend They Don’t Like a Bed? Until Someone Else Uses It"

If you’ve ever brought home a brand-new dog bed—soft, supportive, perfectly fluffy—and your dog responded with a dramatic “meh”, you’re not alone.

For some mysterious reason, dogs love to act uninterested in their own beds… until another dog, cat, or human dares to sit on it. Suddenly, it becomes the best bed in the world.

So why do they do this? Let’s break down the hilarious (and surprisingly relatable) reasons behind this classic dog behaviour.

😂 Reason #1: “If it’s mine, it’s boring. If it’s yours, it’s premium.”

Dogs have mastered the art of pretending they’re not impressed. But the second someone else lies down—even just lightly sits—they sprint over like:
“Excuse me, that is my property!”

This behaviour is rooted in something simple: dogs value what others value.

It’s the same energy as ignoring the toy you bought, but obsessing over the random stick the neighbour’s dog has.

And it’s exactly why high-quality orthopaedic dog beds, memory foam dog beds, and even cooling dog beds suddenly become 100x more appealing when someone else tests them first.

😂 Reason #2: Claiming Territory (Dramatic Edition)

Dogs love ownership. Or more accurately… they love re-claiming ownership—especially when someone else has “claimed” it first.

So when a sibling pet, a toddler, or you take a seat on their pet bed, your dog jumps in like:
“Nope. Mine. Move.”

It’s actually a form of social behaviour and mild resource guarding—usually harmless, often funny, and always dramatic.

😂 Reason #3: They Don’t Trust New Things… At First

Some dogs—especially anxious pups—don’t immediately warm up to unfamiliar smells or textures.

Your new washable dog bed, waterproof dog bed, or orthopaedic dog bed for senior dogs might smell strange or feel too new at first.

But the moment YOU or another dog warms it up?
“Oh… suddenly this smells acceptable now.”

They just needed someone else to test-drive it.

😂 Reason #4: Dogs Want What You’re Using (Classic FOMO)

If you sit on the floor, your dog wants to sit on the floor.
If you move to the sofa, your dog suddenly appears.
If you lie on their large dog bed or small dog bed, they instantly want it back.

It’s pure FOMO.
Your dog is simply convinced that you ALWAYS have better ideas.

😂 Reason #5: It Takes Time to Break in a New Bed

Just like humans breaking in a new mattress, dogs sometimes need time to soften up a new bed.

Beds with:

  • memory foam
  • orthopaedic support
  • raised bolsters
  • cooling gel layers
    take a bit of “getting used to.”

So at first, your dog says “No thanks.”
But as soon as another pet makes a little dent?
“This is PERFECT.”

☕ Quick Little Bonus List: Things Dogs LOVE Lying On Instead of Their Brand-New Bed

  • A single receipt on the floor
  • Your favourite hoodie
  • The laundry you just folded
  • A cardboard box half their size
  • The carpet… next to the bed you paid £60 for

Dogs are comedians. They know it. We know it.

🛏️ So… How Do You Get Your Dog to Actually Use Their Bed?

Here are simple, effective tips that work with even the fussiest pups:

  • Place the bed where they already nap (Dogs care more about location than looks.)
  • Add a blanket or fabric with your scent
  • Use treats to build a positive association
  • Try beds designed for their specific needs:
  • orthopaedic dog beds for senior dogs
  • cooling dog beds for hot sleepers
  • waterproof dog beds for messy dogs
  • chew-proof dog beds for the “destroy first, ask questions later” pups
  • Pick the right size — oversized beds aren’t always cosy
  • Try elevated or outdoor dog beds for dogs who prefer airflow

Comfort + familiarity = “Oh yes, this is MY bed now.”

Your dog isn’t ignoring their bed out of spite. They’re simply dramatic, curious, territorial, and hilariously picky.

But once they decide that the brand-new dog bed is finally “worthy”…
you’ll catch them snoring, drooling, and refusing to get up in the morning.

Just the way it should be.